Foreplay Ideas for Titillating Fun

February 7, 2010 by Smart Diva Online  
Filed under SEX 101

ear-nibbleFuel your libido with some exciting foreplay ideas to help improve your sex life. Make foreplay the main course, not just the appetizer or dessert. Often foreplay gets skipped over in an effort to jump right in and go for gold. Like a good meal, foreplay should be savored slowly and completed. There’s nothing better than slow and sensual massaging, caressing, and licking to get you in the mood and lead to a more intense orgasm. Tell your partner to pay more attention to your emotional side, the need for some extra TLC and stroking, before getting down to it.

Here are six foreplay tips to heighten the senses:

1. Strip tease

The classic strip down still drives the men nuts and makes you feel incredibly sexy. Men are visual creatures so give them something to look at. Set the mood and ambience with candles and music, so you look your sexy best.

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2. Playful alert

A playful cheeky text message or email during the day to let him know you’re ready for tonight will keep him excited throughout the day. Text him again in the late afternoon, providing a visual image of yourself lying in bed naked or wearing sexy lingerie. Make him hurry home from work early, just in time for some pre-dinner fun.

3. Blind-folded

What you can’t see makes it exciting. It also heightens your other senses – smell, sound and touch. Play around with scented candles, incenses or oils, and handcuffs for a little extra.


4. Something New

Try food, sex toys or whatever you can think of. Beat boredom and predictability! Imagine what a little ice cream, honey or chocolate sauce can do for your taste buds and licking pleasure.

5. Erogenous Targeting

Target the sensitive areas with caresses, kisses, licks or nibbles. Everyone is different so find out what makes your partner tingle and squirm. Start with the lower back, ears, back of the neck, and inner thighs. Lick every inch.

6. Sensual Massage

Sensual massage is an intimate art, which helps to improve intimacy and trust in relationships. Besides that, it’s the ultimate stress reliever. By pressing the right points called “sexual energy release points,” you can promote heightened sensuality and less inhibition during love making.
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Foreplay is essential, so find what works for you and your partner by experimenting. It can be very simple yet extremely romantic. Go ahead, throw the lead out there to guarantee a definite hook, line and sinker.

Author: Dr. Martha Stanley

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